The only way Out is In :)

Hello once again guys! I really hope you enjoyed reading my first post on The first thought and I really appreciate everyone who took their time to respond back to me personally after reading it. Thank you so much for your support guys! 😃

Another thing is, I can't promise to be publishing posts often because of some constraints but I'll keep publishing posts from time to time to keep my blog active! 😃

So, here it goes, my next write-up is on a quote that I have always pondered upon. The only way out is in. I came across this quote maybe in around 2010 and at that time I was only 14, so practically all I understood from this quote was that to exit the door, you have to pass through it. That was honestly the only way I interpreted this quote. 

Sooner or later I began to imbibe this quote deeper because as time passed by, I saw my understandings unfold about the meaning behind the quote. It may seem simple to many of you out there because you might feel like, ''Oh its just a very simple quote! What meaning and all is she talking about?''. I'll tell you ☺

As we grow, we go through many phases in life. You go from toddler to adolescence to teen & to young adult and I can surely say that you gain lots of experience as you go through these phases. You will have your very own problems and you will feel that friction inside you till you solve the problem. In my life, when I was a toddler, I don't surely remember but I'm sure that my only problem at that time was going to preschool. I'm not joking here! I used to cry when I reach my kindergarten and it's so embarrassing to think of it now because my teacher used to come to the car & carry me into school 🙈. At that tender age, this seemed to be a huge problem to me but when I passed this age and started going to primary school, this kindergarten going problem was nothing compared to the problem I faced in primary school. HOMEWORK!! It was just pure nightmare to me. I get so annoyed every single day because my homework doesn't end and on top of that it's a minimum homework of 6 subjects at least! 😒 Then comes high school! I grew up watching high school musical where Troy & Gabriella had the best time of their life in their high school life. Sadly, reality was way too bitter than I could ever imagine. Waking up at 5.30 a.m. daily and coming home at 5.00 p.m. and resting for less than half an hour and rushing for tuitions. The hustle though! I'm extremely glad it's over. High school definitely had a lot of plus points and they were mainly the friends you meet, the  teachers who are close to you & the competitions you have won! Those sweet memories will surely be etched in our hearts forever ♡. Finally, it was time for Pre-U! Once again, a wave of ups and downs. In college, more than facing conflicts, I learnt many things. I learnt that college isn't where you have gangs of your own and I'm not saying that all of you will go through this but I'm just saying what I saw & learnt. I learnt that people don't stay the same all the time. I learnt that it's best to keep to yourself in college. Phew!! Journey of a few years in a few lines 🙊 Anyways, it was nice to refresh my memory a little.

Guys, this is why I said that the unfolding of my understanding was something big for me. As I passed through each stage in life, I used to remind myself that the only way OUT is IN. It was a very good drive to keep me going because we tend to give up easily when we face a little problem. Whenever I faced a problem & I reminded myself about this quote, I gain a little confidence that I'll face this problem & handle it well. A little confidence is better than no confidence at all, right? I'm not saying I knew about this quote since small, but when I boggled about this on my mind, I clearly saw how it works. Life is fun guys! Don't waste it by spending time cracking your head about the future. It isn't in your hands so be free and know your cultures & values and be an example to people out there. Thank you so much for coming back to my blog to read my story! I really hope you guys enjoy! 

See you in my upcoming writing guys! 😉